Weird things you can inherit (Part one)? | Crew Show

0:09 Like our boy. Goggins says, stay hard, Yeah, move the boats. Who who's gonna carry the boat? Era? No, that era is living. Wait let you hear myself now. He was just in the corner of Tony Ferguson. Get his ass beat Who's hot? What's his name? Goggins? David Goggins, Tony Ferguson. He's a fighter, you see guy, he lou He didn't want to be there, Tony. He just always looks crumpy. Did he actually fight him? I supposedly trained him, trained him. I remember the Ferguson guy him, he loves good. Whoa someone needs to who's going to carry the boat? Yeah, I'm not a big Tony Ferguson fan. No wait, we got beat up Tony fer beat man Tony Robbins. I like like my boy Tony Robins. She says, someone need to sit down, David Goggins. He talked too much. He's a Navy seal. I'm not sure anyone's we need a navy lion or something in there. Get it as a sea lion, Yeah, Navy or Navy ORCA.

1:23 Navy ORCA because they kill seals. Oh yeah, have you ever seen those videos knocking them ships on the ice. You never seen that. That ship's crazy. Hop on the mic, bro, is it working? Hell yeah, bro, welcome willen. Yes, okay, you never seen them. They'll they'll have like they'll break ice so these little seals are stuck on the ice and then they'll they'll just build waves. They'll make waves and knock the ice to the seal falls in and then they eat it. Yeah. Another fuck, it's like a toy with the other. Fuck. They're so smart. I've seen one words like the seal will saw what was happening and just like turned it looked at the camera. Man, there's three orcas.

2:07 Dude, that all hit the ice at once, and I took out a huge get me out, just coordinated. I'm dead. He was like, I'm dead. They're fully coated there. They're smart as well. Some of that shit's crazy and that I don't know if we talked about it, but how me and Kyle have for sure off air where the censorship on social media is flipped, where TikTok's crazy strict, like you can't even like say fuck and stuff. Sometimes then you go to, dude, I clicked on my Instagram and I'm not into gory shit. My Instagram is mostly like real estate dogs and like sneakers. If you go to my Discovery, maybe a nice looking lady or two. Maybe maybe maybe. But there showed a real accident where this guy's face gets sliced in half from a windshield. No, it shows it. No, it's not blurred. It zooms in. They're like, crazy, freak accident with windshield, and I'm like, bro, I've never once clicked on something like that. Yeah, it's so real. It looks faked, you know, because you don't expect it. It literally just chopped his face and half. Sometimes it has a sensitivity warning, not anymore, I don't think. Sometimes I haven't seen it in a long time.

3:14 I hate those videos, by the way. Yeah they had those last year, a lot sensory everywhere clicked a view. I haven't seen those anyhow, they said recently. I haven't seen those. It's like random if I see it, and then it's something that's not that bad, and then it's nudity. There's straight tits, there's straight I haven't seen any that's weird. What what are you guys? What's on your fi? Crazy? Right next to a guy's head getting too capitated and it might do a very beautiful cone course, so puppy being trained. It might like the video might come down like a day or two from like when it's posted, but it's like that's the damage is done. It's already been shared. It's all smart. Even the comment sections are way funny on Instagram now, like it's all flipped. It's honestly hilarious. Like the comment sections Instagram videos is crazy. Man, comments really do make the internet do. If you have a giant following, the Internet is very funny. The issue is if you have a small following, you only get the loud idiots. But you go to a big old following and look at the comments. People are funny. There's some people out there.

4:14 Yeah, yeah, I actually probably about twenty five to fifty percent of the memes that people send me. It's like, read the comments. Yeah, not just you know the thing itself. Comments are good. No, they make the Internet. Well, they're turning Instagram into Reddit because that's really the strength of Reddit. Yeah is it? Strength is so many comedians. Reddit's inssible, dude, it is. It's bad. I've never been a redditor. I think I got into a once twenty fifteen twenty sixteen, when Powerliftings started to really grow, and then that section was starting to get big because the other forums kind of dropped. Bodybuilt dot Calm was kind of the yeah teenation had already kind of dropped off, so the forums on Reddit were pretty cool. Tenations down for tass room. Yes, oh okay, it actually sounds for titty nation to nations. I wish I was, like I whenever I see people talk about where they post Reddit stuff, it's always interesting to me. But I've never been a redditor. You gotta sift now, Like now there's just as much trash is good where it's back in my day, and it felt like there was more gems and say with all forums.

5:15 That's what own bodybuild dot Calm is, like how much bullshit can we get through? Or it used to be like pretty substantial info on that well, you know, I think too that like the powerlifting subreddit, at some point they instituted that you had to have a total on open powerlifting death you're talking there and so that it's so gatekeepery that it's unreadable for the most part. Every once in a while to see something, but there is no like this is what's happening stuff in there, and it's always the point, right, like, how are you going to get more people into the sport if they can't comment to learn exactly correct, They're supposed to go to forums to learn. Yeah, exactly correct. Yeah that's a little weird. I'll go there to learn, Like, I'll learn something there if like I don't know how to do somewhere, I need somebody else's experience. It's yeah, like oh, I'll say like blah blah blah, and then Reddit. I'll literally type in the word reddit, and that's I won't ever like sift around and reddit, right yeah, and maybe back in the day, but even then I didn't. What's the other one that was kind of cool for a bit.

6:12 Coral, Yeah, Coral was kind of cool for a bit. It's like more of like a fact type of like, yeah, learning an experts. It's like Reddit, but an expert supposed to be the lead supposed to be. Yeah, that stuff is like they need you to log in and ship to look at anything anything. Yeah, every and everything's got to paywall now Yeah, yeah, I'm not logging on that. I was like, I'm not making this ship now, there's too much. And then the issue to go on my tech rant of how many things will pop up in browser or or you choose app bro, and then it won't even go to the app off your phone. Yeah, Like on like a Reddit link and it says like go to app. I was like, well, I got the Reddit app, click it, and then it'll take me like download app. Yeah, but I have that, but then it won't go to that page. Yeah, it goes just the generic wherever. You know. Is that that's like a major issue that needs to be solved. Yeah, it seems so simple, right, I would think. I mean, I'm not a coder, but it seems very simple to just take me where I need to go.

7:02 I to open the app if you have it. Well, there are people who are like who use the interface and try to make it most more user friendly, and then that's like the most natural way of progression, right, and then it just like doesn't work. Yeah, they're losing fucking clients that way, like crazy. I think the thing that's worse for me personally is if you haven't used an app for a little bit, but it's critical and it's updated in between, and then you have to log back into it. Yeah, it's all annoying and you have to figure it, especially like our our access system Brivo. Yeah, I use that app with reasonable frequency if like come in on the weekends or whatever. That's how how I get in typically, And half the time it's been updated or something, and I have to like log back into what and how many times I forget? And how many goddamn passwords? How are we not at the spot? Although I did here today, today's the thirtieth, not this, it's over. Sibots knows the world's over. Me and seabots are the only ones knows. You guys don't know the world is over today? The first neural links in someone's brain. Oh yeah, Oh shit, that's a little extreme. I don't want that yet. But how does our every password I ever use, phone, computer, all my apps? How's that not by my thumb or like my eye? By now? It's going that way? It should, but it's should be like every couple of days, I get a new one that switches over to to that, because there's no way I need to make up another one capital letter, three numbers, fucking symbol thing every month. Yeah, I use a password manager, honestly, Yeah, I think one, and but I use it. Yeah, I'll use it on my PC.

8:35 The last past or whatever on PC. I use some of that, but it's just there's so if you do business or or just even into the internet. I can't even count them. I probably have one hundred passwords flying around. I know I have more than that, you know what I mean. Like, but a thumb theme seems safe. It's getting there, like the pay pay on your phone thing, Yeah, and then bank apps or something. My laptop uses the fingerprint. Yeah. It just seems like a no brainer that we should have that. And we've talked about it for driver's license and keys should be on your phone by now. Yeah, driver, I have my driver's and I know Tesla keys are on your phone. Yeah, but like, how's that not everywhere from like twenty sixteen and on? Yeah, it should be. Yeah, there are certain things people are focusing on. You're getting the chip in your brain. No, I'm not putting it, letting elon put anything inside My body is going to explode. Have you seen the Teslas? Yeah? Exactly. If you fire, if you want to run around with your hair on fire all the time, that'd be the way to do it. I think it's like a direct connection to the internet, right, it needs to do it sounds really cool. I think it's direct. Uh, they're obviously using it with like paraplegic stuff to start, and it's a direct connect to your phone, computer, headphone. I could see that being the case. Yeah, that's where they're starting, your hands and feet and stuff like that. But eventually, I mean you can be you see the person there's a chick play in Fortnite like that, I think all brain and it's on the outside. It's external, but it's it's like probed, not not like through the flesh. No, someone is behind her just playing desk. She's just walks breaking nineties under the desk like the dogs hit the button like, oh, my dog understands those are crazy though those look legit. No, there's no way you can't do that. There's just

10:09 no you could train them to do like yeah, but he's not like saying like I'm angering I'm hungry. I'm hungry. But there are cool things that dogs can do that they don't get trained for cats too, for sure. Opening doors. Can we put a neuralink in you're sick. You won't do it yourself, but you do it to a poor puppy thought. Yes, I'm just kidding. No, I'm sure. I don't think that's what their dogs have thoughts. No, but AI is trying to do. Oh I don't damn. They kind of prove that, right, No, they have thoughts. Dog dog definitely have thought. What is it emotion they're getting like like they can't cry. They can't no, Like I think it's like proven, like they can't cry. Have you ever kicked? Don't think it's it's sad? Maybe, I mean, like I still actual like they don't have I ducks. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think they have thoughts.

10:54 They don't have the concept of me or I. That's a different humans. That's what they say they dream about their humans. The saddest thing is they don't know accidents. Mm hmm. So like you step on his tail, he thinks you're fucking pissed. Yeah, that's sad every time you think about right, Like I grabbed my dog and I grabbed by the chest to move him and he squealed. Yeah, I think I'm trying to kill him everything. I wonder what they think when they slip and fall or something like what just happened? They probably just think what just happened out something they work around, like, oh the wall hit me. Yeah, probably I didn't slip. Yeah, yeah, the floor. So the narcissists, yeah, kind without the concept, Yeah, without and then narcissist is yeah, the only concept they know is I. There are different narcissists. Yeah, positive narcissist.

11:41 Yeah, like, oh I I messed up, Like I didn't mess up something mess I think. I think animals could be like altruistic, which is kind of in a sense, the opposite of narcissism. Yeah. I just watched a video where a guy was fishing along the river bank with his dog and he went into the porta potty because he needed to go, I guess, and the dog, No, no, that would be that would be outstanding. If you get a dog to take a crap in. A cat can do that, honey pot as they call them. Yeah, no, No, the guy, the fishing person went into the port and the the fishing rod got a strike very clearly, and so the dog went over and grabbed it and pulled it away. Yeah, like went to the went to the door of the porta potty, barked, and then came back and got it and just pulled it towards the Yeah, I mean they say that.

12:41 I think their intelligence is like a three year old. Yeah, that's a smart one. Yeah, it's about three year old. I had a dog that I swear to God had like a neural implant because it really could read thoughts. I could give it commands without actually taking to it. I think I think they read emotions and ship for sure. It will be interesting if we could plug the mass with like an AI neural link and you can hear what they're feeling. Or maybe there's colors. You know, it's a color on its collar and you can kind of like see what it's like on up Yeah, like up. Yeah, but yeah is cute. But I don't think you're going to talk like that. Yeah but in color you mean, yeah, like my lights. I hope when I get a dog, maybe this year, maybe next year, that it's smart. Dumb dogs. Dog. There's a lot of really cute dogs out right now. Yeah, I know, I know, you know this, really cute friendships. Like you put you hold the dog up and like to the wall. If it stops itself, it's smart. I've heard just let yeah, the majority do Jordy just let their head hit it. Yeah, someone like put their paws up like to stop it. So, oh my god, you're just grabbing the litter like all of them, get hold on, let me just Yeah, they all have concussions. They're all actually stupid. So so delayed.

13:50 Hello and welcome. I'm Jim. That's Mike. Hello, that's Abby. Hello, it's Kyle and Sebastian. Sebastian. We've been doing some cruise shows lately for a number of good reasons, but the best reason is that they're fun. We hope that they're as fun for you guys as they are for us to have conversations about whatever we decide to have conversations about that may or may not be, you know, fitnessy related. Their fitnessy ish, fitnessy ish, Yeah, liftings, boring, yeah, he related, Yeah, health related, human related at least he Yeah, every fitness person related.

14:31 Yeah, except where we're just talking about dogs. Today's pretty fitness related. Yeah, this is a sort of fitness related question, or not really a question. UFOs come and go through the ocean, right like stuff like that. They definitely live under the water where lives. Yeah, yeah, what you don't know, Jarjar, It's okay, it's all right. I absolve you. Yeah, that's fun. You don't need to know. It's most racist character. And uh, I don't even know what he is saying. The dogs race, but it's like the crows and dogs can be racist for crows and the song of this So Dumbo Dumbo, what what show series movie is that? From Jumbo jar Jar Star Wars Star Wars. He's like the weird looking like what what would a weird like a frog? Like a human frog? Like just because his his king is like a toad, is it the one? Like he's weird eyes and like there. Yeah, yeah, he kind of talks like he's from Jango and very long ears. Yes, he talks like he's from Chang. I do know, I know, I know, like he's just me. So does he didn't say jar? Yeah, he talks like me. He says me, yeah, yeah, yeah, a little yeah, a little Jango esque in there. I got it.

15:48 Yeah, it definitely is so so I heard some cool story about Jango. Uh was Leonardo couldn't I think it's Jamie Fox telling the story even that Nardo DiCaprio couldn't like hit a mercey Yeah, And so then he had to go such character that he wouldn't talk to a black man on set that he went and such that's he could say that easy. Bro, you're so a good actor and you can't say a word, it's gonna be so difficult for me. I don't know, such a great actor can't even say it's so easy, like don't lie duty, idiot. There's thousands of kids that could say the word. They should have done that, like a funny skill that called duty for like an hour practice, dude. We can write that meme right now in the compilation where Kyle does it on stream way like a I just do a kidding. It doesn't exist as crazy you know what we did.

16:47 But the podcast AI that's like free and doable everywhere. Now, oh yeah, there's kids on streams that they the audience gets someone fame miss or one of their homies voice and donates text to talk to them. So it's like I'm streaming and Sea Bass will donate say hey, you fucking idiot, but it'll come through in Kyle's voice and it's like identical. It's so good. That's why I'm even scared with Like the the thumb print ship is like I think they just grab that like maybe password but it's a little bit tighter than yeah, for sure because the letters and numbers. So yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm saying like even like they just grab, like screen grab your thumb off. That for sure. I mean everything when you start getting phone calls like your mom calls you literally happen, Yeah, literally happens me and we're talking about it, or or obviously text, they can steal your phone number. That's why we need neural link. The only way you communicate to me is straight to my brain and then I know it's you. That would be just the opposite problem, I think. I don't know, Yeah, I don't know, because you'd be I mean, more likely to be fool because it's getting past all your other defenses. But maybe maybe there's no other way. There's like less likely to fake it because you're you'll learn someone's aura and conscious because we're talking straight consciousness to conscious. Are we getting closer and closer to the apocalypse by definition? Yeah, yeah, for sure, something just by logical happening before. No. Yes, black mirror, for sure, black mirror. That's why you got to just get back to the farm life. Man. This bullshit, the crazy thing is like everything that

18:21 we know that it's already five steps ahead, that we don't know everything you think, you know, right, Yeah, no, that's that's what's happening, right Like me and Kyle we're talking about that too. Like chat GPT four or five's out to us. They got chat tea between one thousand and FBI. You know, we're fuck which sucks. Yeah, we don't want that, but yeah, or China, Russia they all have chat jipt on one trillion. Some transparency from the government would be cool, but you know, not here, not gonna happen. What do we got, Jim more likely here than most places. But okay, that's true. So here's the question, actually a question, but maybe a question. Like, so I started thinking about this is the thing that I get hung up on fairly often is things that are hereditary, and like I'm you know, kind of always looking at my family and stuff and like where did that come from? You know? And I was like, oh yeah, so and SO was kind of like that too. It's like that kind of makes sense. So this is quirky traits that you didn't know that you inherited. Is this like natures?

19:23 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, genetic versus work versus x versus y epigenetic versus genetic versus epigenetics. Genetics epigenetics are a gene that you have to like activate or stimulus, so that would be like the perfect mix of both, where like your eyes aren't epigenetics, Like you're gonna be fucking blue or green based on your lineage. You know, they can like form that punnet squares. Yeah, We're like power lifting is kind of like an epigenetic. Like you there's some kids that like are the weak kid in class, but if they trained, You're like, oh fuck, that kid's are crazy and lots of shit. Yeah, bio hacking, Yeah yeah, he doesn't need for three days, has a little ayahuasca. Now he's a demon.

20:04 So Jim, you're referring to jin Like what's inherited versus what is like you learned, Yeah, quirky ones or yeah, or just ways that you are like not even learned, just ways like why are you such a dickhead? My dad's side of the family, I have already gone through all of this. My freshman year of college was kind of the beginning of a ton of self reflection. It's when I realized a bunch of shit about my childhood I'm like, damn, I'm fucked up, bro, And I'm like, dude, I hate you guys. You guys gave me a bunch of ship to fix the awakening. I have so many issues now, thanks a lot. I've been working on him since, so it's good. Yeah. Yeah, I've made you know. It doesn't seem like it's a long way. Thank you. Hopefully. Naturally, as a group, we think that's spitefulness, like it is real, hopefully, like one day just turns into like a that's the thing that starts fade. I thought about this. I self reflect so much it's crazy. But you are your own mirror. Yeah, I I black. I don't need what mirror. That's what I realized. I think on the inside, I am truly black. All right, what you said that black mirror. If anybody tells you you're not quick, please send it to me and I'll let them know. But no, oh I don't.

21:22 It's it's like I'm not actually spiteful or I don't like I don't yearn for a for an apology or anything. It's just like cool and now I know where it's from. It just kind of like work on it from the matrix and then avoid it, right, Like, I'm not trying to be around that negativity or whatever what makes me feel this way or react this way, So regret it heavy. I don't know, grudges are heavy. I don't have that though. You just fix it, yeah, because they're heavy. Yeah yeah, yeah, theah they're heavy. My primary weightlifting right now is carrying a grudge so strong legs you try to drop damn. Okay. So number one actually does I think relate to lifting quite a bit. And that's tolerance for pain. Yeah, a ton. Yeah, there's a lot of things. As a kid, you can tolerate a lot of pain.

22:08 Yeah, it's not PC, but like dummy strength would be the Yeah, that's real. Yeah. Sure, Like it has a connection to your like like the neurological connection to like your IQ connection to your pain tolerance like right or nerves. Yeah, is it just like your disconnect from your body kind of like probably because like a lot of guys like don't feel like like if I have like a little scratch and worre, I'll know exactly where I mean, that's a very you know, minute thing, but like I don't know, like I'll be like, oh, I need to fix this or like a like attack this or something like that, like where they're just like, oh something, my arm, Like is it like that? I think for somebody. But if that was like one truth, then all chicks would probably just be stronger because it's more complicate than that. But like, all women can handle more pain than dudes, Like that's just fact, like from heat to obviously popping something out in your pe hole, that's where it comes from.

23:07 Do you think it's just because they're under like so much pain, like like on a consistent, more consistent basist than men, Like we don't have like a monthly like thing. They go through like a fishal, No, it is a birth and child birth. Yeah, well that's what I Yeah. They also kind of like they're always hormone. Yeah yeah, they're pain in our neck. But you guys are pain as well, for sure. I don't I get it, Like women have to tolerate pain in ord to like give birth naturally and things, but also like what else are we going to do? It's like apparently what else are we Like no, no, no, I'm making the sandwiches. I think I spread male like a motherfucker, Like what if we can't tolerate the pain. Then you don't have a kid. Then they shoot you in the back of the biggest needle like epidural, Like yeah, epidural like you get drug, right, some people do.

24:02 They ask for pains or you control the lea. That's what you do when you can't handle the pain any longer. Your body just shuts off, like for sure, there's some pain that's so bad your body you just passed. Ye yeah, yeah, they say you go numb, and then they have like a memory thing. There's some hormone that knocks chicks memories out. No, it literally, there's a there's a chemical that happens that makes women forget. Yeah, they'll give otherwise it would never do. Go through that painting or whatever. What do they say? It's a watermelon through your well then they say exactly more more like your butt really but no, but isn't that the comparison of whole size watermelon not not really pole or something water watermelon exactly don't really big. It's probably something like that, they say, something like that depends on how large the baby is too. Yeah, softball or something they have comparison something like that, you know, golf ball through a hose maybe candleo good don't. Yeah, there's you know, golf all through hose. Yeah. Yeah. There's a video by a guy who calls himself the Sleepy Pram Innocent. Yeah. Yeah, there's a video by a guy who calls himself the Sleepy Paramedic who talks about how the human anus will stretch like six inches this way and eight inches this way, and he puts things out like a paint can and stuff like measures it inside. Yes, very theoretically. Yeah, so babies are smaller than that, sure, sure, yeah but yeah but yeah yeah yeah, yeah, will do that your butt?

25:36 Yeah, maybe like to get like real like that's yeah, what's evolutionary express what kind of pop are you letting extra? Just just to be careful like or just like the type of tissue that has to be there, right, and it's like not a bone. That's a big thing with the ladies though, right, like whether it be genetically or whatever. Like some hips do just separate better than others. Yeah, the shape of the hips. Yeah, se section is a wild science thing or I don't want to calose conspiracy that you can go down though too. Of the amount of sea sections in America versus the rest of the world and purely based on our shitty medical system. Yeah, that's kind of one of the things that the babies to mate a lot of the time. Yeah, but a lot of the conspiracy, I guess would just be that they're just clocking in clocking out. It's obviously way faster birth. So the doctor just like, oh, I'm getting paid the same sea section that bitch. Yeah, I got that woman, the beautiful mother, and I got theater tickets, I got a tea time, I got a whatever. Yeah, rather than the rest of the world.

26:36 I forgot the percentage. I looked it up one time, but it's insane how many we have versus death. It's very, very high. And another I think another issue with with that is our our legal liability structure in the US. You know, medical malpractice sure probably for anything here. Yeah, like you lose a baby, he lose and lose a baby animal Like that's just a giant, giant settlement in the in the offing. And to avoid that. Yeah, your surgery, well maybe I guess get out of tumme open. I do wonder the pain thing, because so much pain obviously, I feel like depends on your history, Like like bubble Boy, right, if you're the kid that's wrapped in plastic with a helicopter mom and you don't even scrape your knees versus the kid that's playing in muddle day playing football at age five, Like, you just have a different sense of what pain is. Maybe your tolerance doesn't go up your sensitivity, but you just know difference. It's the way that you perceive it. Yeah, you know that.

27:36 Oh that's just a fucking Charlie horse. If you dealt with the five out of ten pain most of your life, yeah, you know, when you get to a five, you're like, oh shit, yeah, you know what it is. Where Like if someone's never been in pain and now they deadlift and you say, hey, scale one to ten, how bad that hurts your back? They're like that was a nine to your back's just sore, like you can snap your sponsor And my coach says to me, now I'm like trying so hard. I'm like, man, that was yeah. I was like, don't go down until like you're fine, No, it hurts, yeah, And yeah, and you've been through pain, you know, you've powerlifted for so long, like they get as strong as you were, Like it hurts, yeah, just trying to like I don't know, not wanting to exacerbate it. But then also it's different when you're injured. It's good, like like a chronicling is different than a cute that that type of pain tolerance might be different too genetically, which you can handle over six months of back pain versus what you can like handle a stabbing or like something that happens quick, and that's got to have a mental component for sure, other than just just your nervous system. Yeah. Yeah, and like history, right, like if you had surgery once, or you like you broke your arm once, breaking your leg probably at least, you know, I've never broken ship. I'll probably I'll literally probably pass out when I broke the bone, you know. Or somebody's been all casted, you know, they just know what to expect. I guess expectation or the adrenaline will get you and you want to be in pain. Yeah, I think that's what happened to you. Just like a bake adrenaline sometimes, like a real adrenaline is fucking nuts, bro, And I not, I have nothing to do with it. It's just my adrenaline was through the fractured I fructured my arm and I didn't feel any pain, but my bone was literally laying on my

29:07 skin. Yeah, I punched a boy. No, I was on the playground and then I didn't even do anything. I was on the playground on the monkey bar and I only let go because I felt something was off. But I didn't know what happened. And then I landed on my arm. But I, in my opinion, think that the fracture happened before then, and I learned later on that it was most likely at a growth plate where the bone starts to grow. So it's in children. It's more likely for those fracture to happen there. You're a kid, Yeah, I was seven or eight. You're look at your arms, not like Nemo, I have. I have little Like I was a cousin with a have like surgery I did. It was a compound fracture to come out of the skin. It didn't come out of the skin. It was a super super condole. Daniel told me what it probably was. But like when I was a kid, no one explained it to me. My uncle was like, they're going to cut your arm open. I was like, the fuck are you telling me that? For Yeah, my my older son did that same thing monkey bars slipped, you know, ring slipped out of his hand, fell backwards, try to catch himself, get his arm behind him, and and busted.

30:17 That was an impact. Yeah, both the bones right at the wrist, like just just before the before the little bones was really crying. That sounds painful. No. No, He looked at his arm and said, what did I do to my arm? And it's like, you know, its shaped like an S. And I'm yeah, that's actually the time that I came close to wrecking a car driving to a hospital. But it freaked me out, like stuff like that, freaking why are you doing that? Your arm bones are weird? Like it doesn't hurt like for it depends, obviously it depends, but like it doesn't hurt. You're like I like when I broke when I was a little younger, I broke both bones, like someone hit me this way like this, I broke both of them and I was like, I was like, dude, my arm like this hurts like really bad, Like what is it like? And I could if there anything?

31:00 I was like what is going on? And then they're like, oh, yeah, this is broken. I'm sure your body was like you and you broke your playing football. I was like running the ball and then I have I was carrying the ball right here and like someone help me, hit me right here, and it just was perfect flaming angle. All that still scored, still won the Super Bowl. And then I played with the cast bro was like back like it was crazy. That's a weapon, like all the you have to have. They have to check on it. I'm like I was like nine or ten too. And then I rebroke it, like while I played with it, and then we just re broke it because I was like tackling people. Who your dad is? Yeah, my dad was just like I told you when I broke my nose. My best friend Mike Shawn's dad was an orthogonist and my dad and his dad they're like, well he's a doctor. Well he's got an X ray machine, so they X rayed my nose out a dentist office and he's a super smart dude. He's like, maybe I don't really they don't read noses, like they don't know.

31:59 It was like the crazy Worth Adonis one. It's like a three D billion dollar machine. They're like, yeah, probably maybe. I'm all right, well, what are we going to do. It's like a finger, you know, you can't really do anything. Yeah, you just hopefully again maybe you can pack it and they can support it from the outside. That's like. And then you just can't use your nose for a while. It's like like if you have a DV brush your teeth better. Like, yeah, your nose is okay, but you got four cavities. Yeah, fucked. Probably sucks as a broken rib. I never had one, just because of breathing and ship. Yeah, spine. One our old training partner had to pull on his spine. Anything towards your spine, your back, yeah, neck, like you're just Yeah. One was in an armored car accident.

32:42 So he ended up with the transports money. Yeah he was in a military Yeah not, That's not why thought he was. He was. I think he was. He might have been, like he might have been in the military at the time, but it wasn't a military job he was doing. It was an accident and they were not He was in the back of the car and they were playing playing cards or something that you know, that armored car. It was like they were not strapped in in any way. They and and then what blew up. I don't think it blew up if there was an accident, and remember exactly what the details were. I saw a video of them broke us back in a couple of places. There's these people who like stopped one of those armored cars on the freeway and then they like got out and they stopped the car in front of it, and they got out and they tried to like and that your instag armored car just drove through their car. Yeah exactly, yeah the way just like wait, I'm an armored vehicle for ship. Yeah, now you're playing g t A. My dad's what. He fixes all those If you've ever seen Brinks driving around, yeah yeah yeah, he fixes all those, all diesel, he fixes the engines everything. He's like, dude, these things are badass. I was like, that's crazy. So the actual example that they given this is just something that's pretty well documented. There is that red red people, red headed people, not just red, but reddited people. Leonardo Leonardo are less, uh, are have less pain from like Capsaican like like spicy foods like pepper

34:13 spray or peppers whatever, less less thought, you'd think more, you would think more about right, because you think these Irish fucks, we're just eating bland potatoes. You think Abby's kind would handle the pepper spray. Redheads are less sense into that kind of spicy food. You're historically your people eat spicy toure. Like Irish eating spicy food. I just felt like a pig. Yeah, I eat spicy things, but I'm not that Irish and I'm sort of I got red in my hair, but it's not really red red. Yeah, my beard was really red for a bit spicy food over there at the time. Like, I don't know, and I guess it is different to like what your skin and eyes can handle than what you're inside. Yeah, they might be fine, but they're outside, just like red and normalless. Yeah, I'm like you're thinking about it is if it were an adaptation, But what if it's not. What if it's just random mutation. It could be random. It could because something caused it separate, the cold had something to do with it or something. Yeah, well, red, redheaded people are more susceptible to cold. Cold. It doesn't make sense either, right, No, it doesn't because like Vikings, yeah, Irish and the Vikings. Yeah, yeah, that's just why they wore so much clothing.

35:17 Yeah, because they were cold. That's why they're probably murdering everybody. They're so upset or pissed. Yeah, that's why you can handle spice more because they eat spicy food to keep warm, to keep that eating some spicy But I don't even have ty food. And who knows, right, Like what we have documented is like humans, Like even the Vikings is so new, you know, like evolutionary sense. Who knows what was going on in there? Like five three and ship. Yeah, they're all pussies. They're still taller than me. Yeah, are you Viking? Maybe a little bit, a little bit the next one. See if anybody else has this one. Sneezing at the sun. Oh, I think I've done that. That's what makes me sneeze if I feel it coming on. Yeah yeah. You're supposed to find like a light source that make your eyes going. Yeah yeah, you never made your eyes go? Yeah, felt that your eyes You can't you can't like keep your eyes open because it's too bright. I get that with sinus infections, the same feeling in my eyes. Oh really like a weird squint. Yeah. Yeah, they're about to explode. They say it's impossible to sneeze with your eyes closed. They say it's a possible once or sorry open. My aunt Joanne used to yell at me when I sneezed twice, that's not allowed because it's like impossible to sneeze once. It's like you have any control over. There's some people who like only sneeze in like threes.

36:37 Yeah, that's what I mean, my three five. Yeah, No one sneezes in ones. That's not true. My uh my Jean. I had an uncle Daryl recipes, but uh he sneezed himself to death. Oh he like he saw me. I was like literally like seven years old. I remember this still. He was. I sneezed like two times and you kind of looked at me, and I was like looking at him and I sneezed again. He's like, yeah, that's bad luck with them at me. I was like, what do you want me to do? Like do that? Like that's horrible? Don't They say if you hell to sneeze and you die, I said, fuck you up. They say sneeze could kill you, but your body doesn't let you. Yeah yeah, yeah, like you can't legitimate could kill your internals you hold it kill you, but like you just can't your body eyes will I pop out of my head kind of feelings. Yes, I think it probably happens. Like they say, like, you can't punch yourself hard enough to die, knock yourself unless you're insane.

37:30 Yeah, yeah, like you're on some drugs. Obviously I get these. Yeah, you really can't, Like you can't punch yourself. Where are the drugs that's testing? Yeah, where are the trunks? I get these jags of three to five very very strong sneezes, and that it's a challenge. Yeah, my sneezes are heavy too, Like I'm holding onto the wheel hoping that I don't drift right, and I'm trying, like hell, keep my eyes open to see if I know it's I can know them. That's the thing, too, Right, if your eyes are open when you sneeze, you die or they blow up and something hurts. Yeah, it supposedly makes it. I can sneeze with them eyes open, but it's not easy. Oh I can't. You're like this, you know, Yeah, that's so bad for you. I feel like, why you're trying to keep your eyes open and sneeze. Why is that bad? Probably gotta hurt. So they're gonna sneeze five times and at five times. Sneezing is probably twenty seconds fifteen seconds like that, fifteen seconds of inattention while you're driving down pull over?

38:21 Yeah, fuck it, you don't have time to pull over. I think I have a heightened sense of smell. Okay, wow, you're talking about my favorite colors yellow. I don't know if that one's in here. I didn't premiate it enough. But in that one mom at bath, see if we can find one of this specific baby cry teaching me man's upset. What's the cilantro soap? Yeah that one. I don't think that was in here, but yeah that Yeah, a lot of people have that. Yeah, they hate Chipotle. I think my sister does. Yeah, my sister's kind of a redhead. I wonder what her spice. She moved to Portland.

39:07 No, it's not the This has a name. It's called ACHU syndrome. It's autosomal dominant compelling heliopathic outburst. Yeah, exactly. Next one is I have seen this one and I know that it's true. And that's the similar similarity of facial expressions among people and like in families. And they think that's genetic not learned. Yeah, I can tell you. I can tell you it's genetic. For the for this reason, my my sister was adopted and a few years ago found her birth family. So she has a full brother. And I've met like half sister and her full brother and his kids and they and they and my nephew and my sister have very similar facial expression.

40:02 It's interesting, like weirdly similar facially because they say, they say, your walk is learned from your parents. I believe that, like you know, like a weird like my dad would be like your wattle Yeah yeah, all that or toe walk or whatever kind of Uh it was a bird foot and pigeon. Yeah, they say, all that is that's interesting your face, isn't you think pigeon toed in? That is like isn't based off like your actual hips? No, they say a lot of it's learned because like my hips will not allow me to like walk that way. Well now because you're the oldest ship, Well that doesn't when you're younger, like I would always open yea maybe because your dad, I bet you if you sell your dad, he probably walks the same way. Yeah. I just feel like you're just like if you walk this way, you're just weird. I think anatomy. Dad definitely plays a role, but uh, they say, yeah, your gates learned, it's interesting. Another one I totally totally believe.

40:51 And that's whether you're in, uh an early bird or a night ow that's interesting. I don't even know which. I don't know what I am either. Yeah, I mean you can definitely force him right, yeah. Yeah. And then the other thing too, Like my dad was pretty stoic, you know, like typical dude. So he was an early riser and late like you would just get shit done. So I wouldn't even know because normally you would think an early risers someone that semi enjoys it or like feels good. So I wouldn't even know if my dad liked it. But that motherfucker's up at like five am in the lawn. Is that why? You also don't know whether you like it or Yeah? I hate both. Yeah, yeah, but I'll do whatever I have to do. But I honestly hate both. Yeah, I'm a midday guy. Both of them sucked me up.

41:36 I get like jet lag feeling, and without jet lag, he's like, I just hate being awake. I really do waking up early. I feel jet lag. I feel sick. And then being up too late. I get jet lag and I feel sick on a normal day. Wait, did you go to bed too late and wake up sometimes you feel like you're like hungover? Yeah, but mine's every day no matter what. So if you've done twenty three and me or ancestry or one of those, most of the time they will tell you whether or not you have or which gene you have, whether you have the morning or night. And so I'm definitely a night out. And what is that? Do they equate it to like happiness, like what you like or when you're productive, or just what you tend to, what you're most comfortable with. Yeah, so probably all of it. Yeah, Like I'm like, I'm a night out and I'm not even very productive until a good two hours after I wake up in the morning.

42:24 I just my brain is just not there. It's not there for the first two hours of the day. Yeah, I think I can force both. I wonder, I wonder force it. I wonder if each parent's like what if my mom's like a night hour all my dad's a morning person, And then I get both. I'm super. I think one of the super I'm super. I think one of them would probably still be somewhat more dominant. Yeah, yeah, Blade Doe day Walker. Yeah, I am a day Walker. I heard those like twenty three mean all that like can steal from you. Yeah, there's like a weird dad, that's a trait you have or something like let's say there's like a cure for something and you have it like they now they're doing they're making superhumans. Yeah for sure, dinosaurs. So the boys, it was something like that. It was like if you have something I don't, Yeah, I forget what I don't. I don't think anymore that you're signing that stuff off. I think that Henrietta Lack lawsuit her family like the woman who she died of cancer, but she had a very specific mutation that allowed them to experiment with her cells and they've kept herselline alive for like fifty plus years. Yeah yeah, yeah, but they were her family was never compensated until they sued all the pharmaceutical companies and they Yeah, so I don't think they can do that like anymore. Yeah, just because the first lawsuit won. Yeah so yeah. Coffee drinkers, y'all.

43:49 Yeah, yeah, yes, yes, yeah, that's apparently that's a genetic Yeah, but I wonder how that works worldwide. It affects how your how your body metabolizes caffeine, but I would tell you that that it it affects how your body metabolizes caffeine in the prime of your life, because as you get older, I've gotten more sensitive caffeine. I used to be a really fast caffeine metabolizer. Yeah, I could drink coffee and go to sleep and it was not a problem at all. Now I gotta be careful with caffeine after It's kind of nice though, yeah, in some senses, wake you up a little better. Yeah, but coffee is like so American now, uh yeah, you know, like the coffee consumption in America like quadruples any other country or more. Really, I forgot the data, but it's insane.

44:34 We drink. We drink like as much coffee as the world combined. Really, Yeah, I don't know. It's like the one thing that survives your sessions safe. Yeah, because they drink some coffee, but they'll drink tea or just less of that. Even like we're crazy coffee drinkers in America. Yeah, that's for sure. I'm a fan. Yeah, I mean I am. Sometimes I'll drink coffee and fall asleep right after. Sometimes I feel like it puts me to sleep, like my body just like Yeah, I don't know. There's like so many ways you can make it or have it right like iced hot. Yeah. I think it's kind of fun. It's like a hobby for some people. For me, just like it is. It's like my favorite thing to do when I travel. I find a vintage store, find a coffee shop because you can kind of feel that the process of it too, like pour over espresso. I don't know. There's like so many different variations. Yeah, one day I would like to open one, like honestly, a little cool shop, yeah, coffee like small Colin. I did that for like a year. Now there's not as many, but we try a new coffee shop every Sunday. Yeah, a boy date every Sunday or whatever. It would go find a few different ones.

45:32 Yeah, you guys, oh in Sacramento, you're just yeah, there are so many. So so when I was at home to deepot the other day, I was telling you guys that I was approached by a member who I had not met before, like one of our members, talking about how much he loves the gym and whatever. Whatever, he works in the coffee place. Okay, that's his favorite. Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, I didn't know. I didn't know him either, but yeah, we go to get good sizes. Is one of the main interesting owner. Yeah, he's about it now. I think he's just always busy. He's always busy. It might not be a morning guy. Yeah, open a coffee shop honestly. Yeah, yeah, because sometimes I'm a coffee maker, not a baker. Yeah. Sometimes he was like about it. I feel like that.

46:17 Then we chatted with him a school. Yeah, I know, it's kind of mood like if something bad happens or the there some coffee shops where the there's so many around here, so many good ones too, that the atmosphere is almost like almost as just as important as the coffee, No, just as much because we have such good coffee, like nine out of ten, spot's gonna banging coffee. If you're a dick, I don't even want to go. How nice are your baristas? How cool is your spot to kick it? Because all our coffee is pretty fucking good. Like it all ships on most places you go around the nationally, we probably have five spots that are top one hundred in the nation, swear to God. Yeah, living here made me kind of become slightly more of a coffee snob. Yeah, like now I have a Now I get it, but only because they've had good coffee. Yeah, it's pretty cool. It's really good. So this is actually was a study that was in Scientific Reports compared to coffee drinkers in Italy and the Netherlands and found that those with a greater expression of the PDSs two gene reported drinking less coffee. They theorize that these people metabolize caffeine slower and so they need less coffee. So maybe the same with tea, So just caffeine. Yeah, it's just it's probably not specific to coffee, the way that they process the caffeine in coffee versus whether they it's palatable to them. No, I think you saw their body tabolize. So if you don't like coffee, sure yeah, sure, yeah, but it's probably any caffeine and like if you feel good on it or feel bad on it because

47:50 it's so Yeah, some people have like a little bit and they feel tweaky and they just hate it. Yeah, it's like my mom, but my dad drinks a shit ton of coffee. I drink a shit ton. I would like to tweak on some caffeine. I used to drink a lot more, like I said, just sort of, my tolerance has kind of gone down, and my like desire for it has really cut in because it's terrible. I love coffee back like I used to be able to drink, you know, quite a bit in the morning and then hit like a three o'clock espresso or whatever Americano or whatever. I'm like, no, it's like I really I don't only want that. I don't feel like I need it. It's fine, it's just fine. Sweaty hands. I got the clammiest hands. My hands are not porous at all. They're very leathery. They don't My hands do not perspire mind don't either. Yeah, swety hands, I got some clammy ass hands mine mine. You sweat when I am nervous, but the rest of the time they're pretty dry. Is it just where your glands are you're sweating? Yeah? Absolutely, Yeah, I get swass.

48:45 I got crazy swashs Is that genetic? I just got big cakes. I don't have big cakes like that. I get swashy. Your cakes are fine, Oh fine, they're fine. They're fine. That's like, Okay, I don't know what it is. I wonder if swast is it's a good questions. Don't know what makes sense because your skin is different, you know, yeah, like it's different skin. Like what do you mean, like your hand compared to your asshole? Yes, different skin, I think so. Yeah, my ass while can stretch a watermelon and montana. My little cousin had to get like surgery on her hair y or people do botox, so she had because she sweat so bad. Yeah. Yeah, and she had to switch careers because of it. Yeah. I watched she worked in like a dentist office. She was a dentist assistant. Should wear the gloves all day? Yeah, was to make my hand like it sucked. Like she was sad for a long time, and I was like, damn, that sucks. Like she would sweat through the gloves and like it would just be and she couldn't do anything about it. I just imagine she's working on someone and then the patient has a bunch of sweat on her face. Yeah, we're talking about the how beautiful MTV was in the early two thousands and the nineties. But they had a crazy amount of shows. But they one called True Life. True Life was like half an hour documentaries where they'd follow like kind of young twenty year olds and they had a bunch of cool ones.

50:06 They did one like a true Life, I'm on steroids, True Life, I'm addicted to math, True Life, I live out of my car all the shit. Kevin he was in one of those. Yeah, he was in one of the strong Men once or maybe I'm on steroids when I forgot Sorry Kevin if you claim natty, but they Kevin is a strong pro strong man. But they did one on hypetro hypolysis hyper Yeah, they did one on that, and these people, poor kids were so embarrassed, like they just they just put on a shirt and their pit's already like standing it like or their hands or their eyebrows. Yeah said yeah. Uh. Two thirds of the people who suffer from it have a family history of it. However, a person only has a twenty eight percent chance of inheriting this trait if one of their parents has the disorder mine dission over time. Yeah, yeah, you're think, but but maybe if two people with it, Mary, then it might strength. They think that they're more than it. What are you handople No, it's probably it's probably great because a dry hands person doesn't want to shake my hand. But if your hand or hold my hand in bed, but if your hand's already soaking wet, you wouldn't mind you and hold hands in bed. No, it just hands my hypothetical wife eet yes or sea bass yeah me and we can cuddle you feel it make a slip and slide. Do you feel insecure when you when you give handshakes?

51:23 Uh? No, not really, sometimes jokingly like it was a homegirl. We weren't dating at all. We're all just like a group of friends. She's like, hold my hand. We were just holding hands. Now I'm like twenty or something. She's like you and that made me a little. That made me a little self conscious. Yeah, everything shrinks. And I met I met someone recently. It was a girl, a friend of her friend, and I sugar hand introduced myself and like she has the smallest, daintiest soft distile hands and a minor you come with your construction workers, my freaking base hand, and she's got the car hard got to oil those things. You got the car heart. Half the time I like shake Eddie's hand, He's like, oh, your hand's still rough. I'm like, yeah, bro, what do you want from me? Dude, I gotta pet you. Guys can continue, Okay, I think the correct thing to do uh oh. I feel like it's like frowned upon but it shouldn't be.

52:15 Is like when someone goes to shake someone else's hand, like let's say, like someone has a sweaty hand or whatever, like someone wiping their hand off and like they're they're like pants or something first before they shake their hand. People like take that the wrong way. I don't take that the wrong way at all. I don't take it wrong with it. If I am like I said, if I'm nervous, I will have a little bit of sweat and I don't really want to wear it. So if i'm hand yeah, just because I feel like it's for me, it feels like a respect thing. I'm like, oh, if my hand's wet or whatever and I go to shake your hand, some people are like like get weird out by that. They're like oh, like they don't say like, oh why why'd you do that? But somebody else might come up me and say something that I'm like, I was just like wiping my hand off, like like, oh, it is your hand dirty? Like, no, it's yeah, I think they they think that you know, there was something on your hand.

52:58 It brings the idea like where the hands, where were they? What are they doing? Don't carry a towel around like make you think it's but I think it's because they the other person doesn't deal with sweaty hands. If you see someone do it, you're like, oh, probably perspective for sure. Yeah, this is something that I know that Mike can identify with, especially since he said he's got sweaty hands. I like, I said, mine are just about being nervous. But like, if you go to an expo and there is a group of people who know you who you are, you're gonna especially pre pandemic, you would end up shaking hands with a lot of people. And so you're kind of always doing this business to make sure that you're not going to sweat all over somebody. And then you're hoping that if they're a hand sweater, that they're doing the same thing so that you're not like then you want to they got they're sweat on your hands and you need to get that off too, And yeah, that's true. We used to have like, uh, you know, even pre pandemic. I think there was uh uh hand sanitizer, yeah, because you know we'd be out in you know, particularly at the Arnold that time of year. Everybody's got a fucking cold and you don't want to We're talking about expos, yeah, like they're disgusting. Yeah, and like a pre pandemic, especially like you would shake a lot of hands and then it's like this is why I respect.

54:20 Knuckles are so much nicer for people. I feel like they're shaking my hand. Your hands. The type of people that used to go to expos may be a little different too, that's a possible. The sanitizer, like it has a lot of alcohol and it's probably good. Why it dries up your hand. I think it does dry up your hand. That's good. I don't need that. No, the moistes my hands on I don't know. Relation is like it doesn't do anything to make really or hardness of hands has to be genetic, right, yeah. I mean if the sweaty part is you would think the opposite might be like my hand's like a lot of baseball and all that bullshit, like my hand should be rough. They're I have like very soft hair. You got soft hand, bro, soft hands. I'm the brother I do watch out of my soul. I'm soft. A lot of your skin might be out at zoom somewhat like probably a little bit of what you eat. But like some people just have naturally oily skin or naturally dry skin, hair, et cetera. Yeah, might it might be.

55:12 I'm sure it's partially genetic, partially how you eat. I think this is one we definitely talked about it before, maybe even today. Is asparagus pea. But I thought it was that that some people just didn't didn't process the proteins in asparagus, and so it smelled when they when it, you know, passed through. It's not what it is at all. The thing is that some people can smell it. It smells. It smells, period. Some people can smell it, some people can't. I can smell it no way. So everyone's pee does smell, because everybody smells. Because when I was a kid, I remember my parents are whoever teaching me about that, and we ate a veggie every night, and asparagus was like my dad was pretty picky in food, but like asparagus was one of the veggies liked.

55:53 He like like three you know, some mom would always cook the same shits and I ate them a bunch as a kid, and I didn't smell it. Maybe I didn't need enough of them. But then I remember smelling it for the first time when I was like, am my teens or something I thought I was dying, was like maybe I have aids or something like my piss. There's coffee pea too, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've eaten, Like dude, I'm so fat. I like eating enough of like certain things at my pea, Like you'll smell pepperoni or like you're like, damn, my smells like sweet tea. Like I just ice cream. Imagine you eat pepperoni. But it's not even like sliced. It's just like you don't do that. Whatever you're doing stuff slab, It's just a slab. Yeah, you've never had that. Like hard salami slam is so daddy good hard salami, hard fucking SLAMI versuslacid sam. Like flastid salami is like the ship you get at the grocery store for a sandwich that's trash. You get like a hard ass Italian one where you got to rip off the skin.

56:50 You never had that, like on a chikutaie board. Oh my god, we'll go to Cordy Brothers. Dude, hard swami, hard salami with crashers. I all eat a thousand both. They have like big old ones, but they all like like sometimes all baby looking ones. So good, but it's hard. It's like actually hard. You've never been a quarter brothers. Oh yeah, we gotta go, you gotta go. Yeah, it's so good. What else? So this is one that definitely affects our our industry, and that's sweet tooth. And this one is weirder than I thought it was because this is kind of an obvious thing, Like nearly eighty percent of preschoolers carried at least one gene genotype that makes them want to snack on sweets instead of vegetables. But part of that is that it's not that the sweets tastes better, it's that the vegetables taste better. Yeah, yeah, sure so they. I mean they are, and I eat a shits on of veggies and I do like them. But like you bite into a piece of celery, like that's just better as hot celery. Yeah, that's just better as any of it. Though, like anything you don't cook and don't put shit on, Like if you don't put butter and cheese on your broccoli, Like, broccoli is better as fuck raw. I don't think it's bitter.

58:01 If you you ever eat just ahead of raw broccoli, I mean bitter. I don't think so. I don't think it's sweet. You think carrots are better. Carrots have a little more sugar than those others. Celery, you just tastes like. I mean, there's a celery flavor and then it's mostly water. I don't taste bitter. No, I definitely taste better than celery. Broccoli like, especially raw, taste taste bitter and celery. I just don't like it. I don't like the texture of you're weird. I don't celery that's shaped like this and really thick. That's not weird. I knew exactly what you're referring to. So apparently Brussels sprouce and kale tastes more bitter to certain people. Yeah, those are bitter, bitter. They're both in the cabbage fan but I do like them. Yeah, but they are bitter.

58:45 I love like cooked kale. I don't know why I'm sick an twisted. It's a little twisted, disgusting I love kale and then you poop it out, so it's a hole and a good poop. Dude. They say, that's the male g spot. That's why prostate, that's why poops feel good. Yeah, I don't know about your why they feel good though, that's what they say. Your poop is like a prostate stimulation tube. Yeah the case, that's what they say. Yeah, I don't know too much. Yeah, that's why we'd be kicking it there for an hour, just we create more waste to feel better. Dude. Some people, and this goes for guys and girls, but like, I don't know if you guys are like this, but right after a meal or right after an energy sensitive times, it's always so you're mocking my SENSEI immediately, well, no, maybe I'm jealous. Maybe I wish I could pup not every meal scheduling.

59:38 Yeah, it does help with scheduling our oily foods. I'll send me. It's like an alarm goes off though literally, I feel like a fire alarm. That's when I get sweaty too. Have you ever taken a poop and you had to get naked? It's like so much chaos, And I had one within the last year. I haven't had one in a while. You've never been a war. You've never been a war. You're soft talk about you, get the shower going, you do anything you can know you. I'm turning on music to soothe my soul. Hands are on the fight, the essential oils. If I had time, I would. You don't have time. Fire alarms are ringing. Yeah, oh my god, You've never sweated. You never had a ship so bad you sweat. I don't know to put the top of your head. You never bit your tongue, bite your lip, like, oh fuck, here we go. It feels like I'm giving birth here. Maybe one time, Yeah, maybe I've been there more time. Would you have that discussion with yourself? Oh yeah, I'm talking. Or if you're in the car, it's the worst. Then you're really talking. You go to your breathing extra it's like you're doing sprints, Like, all right, how many more rounds? Can I take it this?

1:00:44 Yeah? Do I pull over and ship on the side of the road right now? Or can I make it ten minutes? If you're out for a walk, this is the one that gives me. And it's like you're too far from home and you're like how am I ever going to Starbucks? I need to ship? Am I ever going to get there? So my trick is that I like, even though I don't absolutely need to carry my keys, and I just like torture my hand with a key to distract myself. Okay, okay, okay, this is you've never shiitted bad? Wait? Wait, wait, this is very similar to what like pregnancy? Okay, because because they know they have. I've watched someone who was. They have combs for pregnant women where those squeeze sure and like to distract themselves from the pain. That's so funny. In every nineties sit calm, they beholding their dude's hand and break it or something, you know, a comb that has like a pain in their hand that distracts them from the other type of pain. But when I said breathing exercises, I was also thinking about like pregnancy. No, it's sort of God, I have battle for sure.

1:01:40 I can handle any of the worst night. Oh you're one of those in the middle of the worst. It's the worst. That is the worst. Completely naked. Do you take a shower After you jump in the shower real quick, it defends out dirty, don't It's like war, You're just feel disgusting. I've also been to many wars, so there are different types. There's there's more moist. Yeah, it depends what battle your fight. Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yah yeah yeah. Sometimes I'll just sell my house. That should so bad. You just move say that war was not worth it. You just move on to the next lane like a like a contista door. I'm moving to the next land. Just scheduling, a scheduling.

1:02:23 I never want to see this place. What happened in this house? You don't? Yeah, why you move so fast? Don't go in there? Do not go in there. I I forgot what happened, but it was this year I had to get naked. Did someone die a party? Yeah? No every time? Yeah, every time you lose a party of you. Yeah, need a handrail. A hand rail would be good, actually get it you definitely do you have a squatty bass? Oh you need It's like a male. You haven't even half half my pain. You need a squatty party for every day, let alone one of those situations. That's bad. I don't I don't put enough. I think, Yeah, you're all too girls. Definitely don't poop after this conversation. You just lost every female everything is Yeah, it's like a fed sorry, like you never had one of these moments. Now, if you've never had to rip your shirt off in just the most agony you've ever been, just want nothing near you?

1:03:15 No, yeah, you feel constricted by anything like bracelets off and ship like everywhere you swear to God, anything coming off. This is not a joke. You don't even take your shirt off, you rip it off. I would literally feel constricted. It feels like a boa is holding you while you're sweating. That's bad, It's really bad. This isn't even exaggeration. I get it. I get it. Kind of you start like feeling your stomach. I've experienced it once. I think you start rubbing your own to everyone's tell me you don't always they're ashamed of it, but everyone's tell me, rube. And then do you take a picture and send it to Kyle. No, I've never been that guy that that is a very popular thing. But yeah, I'm not like that. I've never been. I've been embarrassed of my poops as a kid because all I've always had like stomach issues and anxiety issues in my stomach. So it was embarrassed to poop. Yeah, yeah, a lot. I only put that home like at schools. We like people know I never pop. I never poop at school. Yeah you can't. I can't. I wouldn't eat at school either though, because I knew it. Who knows you got my shirt off at school? Steve Gentilly had a video about that the other day, but no about that. He doesn't know. He owns a gym. Yeah, he won't poop. He will not poop there. I don't want to poop here. I have, but I don't want to. I fucking have to do it every guy.

1:04:30 I want to pop it home, for sure. It's the worst. When you're not driving. You got to get someone to pull you over to go poop. Oh yeah, yeah you get that. You know that's embarrassing too. Just so you got to really bad. Yeah. And then I'm in there for an hour and a half and then I come out shirtless, still spipe barks on my arm. That's true. That is true. Any of those jaws or size things going to you, and I'll take you so long. There's a long line and start it was the walking dead in there. Get me home before I turn uh so just not surprisingly people who don't have the bitter taste eat two hundred more servings of vegetables a year. That's where I do believe being fat. The argument's so hard, right because you can't bla like, but like, being fat is kind of genetic a little bit.

1:05:23 Yeah, what you want to eat? Yeah, because there's something in my brain that won't tell me to stop eating ice cream. Yeah, I literally won't stop. If you guys seen the like, the amount I could eat in one sitting is actually so stupid. It's so stupid. I could probably eat like ten mcflurri's. I had a whole deep dish pizza in Vegas. Ye deep, I mean like you carry that thing. It's literally like you when you were just there. Yeah, I went crazy. That's that seems so out of character. No, I got issues. You were but you were alone. Mom had like a slice. Okay, yeah, mom had a slice. I think I thought I thought you were there part of the time with Mom gone, I was, I was. I was dog watching because you're still doing olive oil things, so I could. I could not get a pizza about myself any day. No, that's like, that's like I feel like an addict when I hear you though, like I'm gonna make foody as well. But I also know kind of the struggle because we have to we lose and diet and stuff and we have to lose weight.

1:06:16 But I'm feel bad because I'm like I understand like how hard it is to enjoy food as much as we do, and then like my addiction, like the addiction where it feels like that, I'm like driving through a drive through like seven and nine, I'm like, oh, here I go, where's my figs? Yeah? As bad as bad. It's I I honestly have the polar opposite experience, yeah, which is so weird, like in a bad way too, Like I don't know, it was like an unhealthy way growing up stuff like that because I was like a very picky all the time, you know, and like force fed forever and stuff like that. But uh, like if I need to, I could literally just have like a little bit of caffeine and just hold me off and I'll be good. I'll be Oh, I didn't even eat today, oops like that. I've never once in my life I'm ordering toilet paper. We have way too much, So maybe you guys to take something I should. I should ship here, we'll get rid of that ship real quick. Yeah, well we're just ta home. Don't do it here, We're stucking it for the meat. That's pretty good. So what is it about, Like you don't you don't enjoy eating? No, No, I do know, because he's kind of a foodie too. He likes good ship and he has a good taste. But I'm definitely very picky, and I just I've been like that since I was a little You're still really picky. Yeah, Like, I don't know.

1:07:24 I like some things I've grown on me and I'm like, oh, like I'll try this, and then I'm like, I'm a texture person. I noticed. I think some people with the genetics being fat thing find comfort and being too full, and some people obviously find uncomfort and being too full. Like there's something about slamming my fat ass full of food and then going to bed like almost almost in pain. Yeah. Yeah, I'm like fuck you because it does make you sleepy, right, Like that's the whole Thanksgiving deal, Like you eat so much and then everyone naps. I feel bad when I wake up still like kind of full. No, I don't like it the next day for sure, because I still feel a tummy ache, but like as you're doing it, the endorphins are hitting from eating the pepperoni in the fucking ice cream. Then I go to bed with it. That's the two am poop too. Yeah, yeah, that's the worst. I don't know, I don't know what it is. Sometimes I'm not even hungry or even lately, but my brain wants to, Like my brain craves these certain foods. Yeah. Yeah, Like I haven't had Indian food in a while.

1:08:21 I kind of want that. It's like I don't really feel like I need it, yeah, but my brain wants it. Or snacking, right, Snack is the same thing. I'm never hungry, but like I just want to eat chips all day because it's there's something going on. Yeah, like I was, Yeah, I will crave salty, crunchy stuff all day. It is weird, like I won't be like I won't know I'm hungry, and I'll like see like a picture of food or something, I'm like, oh, damn, actually I'm kind of hungry. Yeah, I'm never like you're not thinking about it. I mean there's times obviously where I'm oh, I'm fucking starving, But if I really needed to, I could just like hit some caffeine or whatever and just just power through. It's like not even be hungry. Brain. Yeah, I don't know what it is. I have no idea what it is. I do wonder how much of it's genetic and how much is raised. Yeah, it's super weird to shut it off completely. But I mean you're a fairly lean guy all the time.

1:09:04 Yeah, yeah, I've been waist skinny. I mean I feel very skinny all the time. But like I've been waist skinny. We've always been lean. Yeah, like body fat wise, No exactly, it's just a muscle up or down. Yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. I kind of wish I was more picky. I'm very not picky. Like one of the things I don't like is brazens. I don't know why. Most other things, like I enjoy eating, and I wish because we have to cut in things. I wish I was like more limited. Our teammate's name was Robot, but he literally could eat like unseasoned, unsauced chicken all day every day and rice and not care and be like yes it's pretty good. Yes, Like not I ounce of salt on it. You just sit there and eat it.

1:09:44 No, that's just bad food. Yeah, you know what I mean. But like that makes the best power lifter, that makes the best bodybuilder. Yeah yeah, yeah, buds Yeah, where I could eat Chipotle five times a day. I could probably have five cho Britos a day if I wanted to say, it sounds good. The salt would get me. I'm pretty yeah. You give me a dire coke. It just balances out. I keep going. You just go back and forth, back and forth. I crave salt. But there's like a limit. There's for sure limit. I got no limits anywhere. Okay, so we got two more here, we got this one's kind of important. This is whether you see the glass as half empty or half home. Genetics. Genetics. That's crazy. Yeah yeah, if you never quite look on the bright side. It is not necessarily because life is beating you down. Your ox tr gene, which affects the receptor for the love and bonding hormone oxytocin, could be responsible. According to a study published in p and as which I don't know what that means, very close to penish and pain in the ass and pain in the ass.

1:10:40 People with certain variation of that gene were less optimistic had lower self esteem and felt less personal mastery than people with a different variation. That is interesting. Like that said, while this inherited optimism or pessimism may influence your outlook in life, it's not the only determining factor, all right, So there's some some nurture going on or maybe some self destiny stuff. Yeah, Like I truly do believe in the faked. So you make it ship like affirmations and like trying to find a positive and some shit like I think I'm genetically negative for sure. I know I am. Yeah, but I fight that bitch like a motherfucker. Ye fight claw tooth and nail. I fight that harder than I fight the poop sweats? Why do how do you affirmations?

1:11:26 Everything? Like some people do it by journaling and shit. But like a lot of things I learned in therapy, just like always trying to just crank it up to neutral. Anything that's negative in my head, crank it to neutral very least because I cranking it to positive. It's sometimes either fake because you'll go too far, right, like oh I got a flat tire, Like that's okay, I got to the sun. I get to see the sun that day, you know, like, well, that's gotta be real. But there are some great people that are just like truly positive to see the best, which is amazing. Yeah, but I just at least crank her to neutral because I always do flow Like say, we're at zero to a positive ten and zero to a negative ten, and Sebos lives at like a seven. Probably I live in like a negative one. It's not too bad, but I always have to fight it to neutral. I just always have to fight it. Anything I see becomes negative. Maybe I'm negative, like three four, you seem decent. I don't know. You don't seem that bad. I don't know. But the fake it till you make it thing is is like part of the part of confidence as well, and not just positivity. But what makes me want or wish that I can fake it is when I see other people who are who are seemingly very confident, and then you learn they actually don't have the things that they say. They're faking too hard. Damn. But you convinced yourself and other people like you're doing these positive things because you've convinced yourself, and I'm like, I wish I had that. Some of it I think is like things you have to do, and so like for me, it's clothes, like dressing a certain way, feeling good about myself helps me be more positive in general and carry myself more confidently. And that might not be everybody, or it might be but

1:12:59 it might be a different look, or it might be a different style, or it might be I'm more confident when I wear X sneakers or whatever it is. I think all that's important. Some people, it's like, well, I feel more confident when I work out it first thing in the morning. I feel more confident when I get X amount of work done. I feel more confident when I meditate, whatever that is for you. I get more confident when I get to bake for others. Like, there could be a million things that make you feel confident, but the fact is that like that you have to do them every day. You know. It's interesting that with the with the affirmations, with the faked till you make, that's all very cognitive behavioral therapy stuff. Yeah, I think if just some short I think if you're like being actively negative, like there's a difference right like where there's like you're just kind of negative towards things versus harping on yourself, you know what I mean, Like, if you're in your head, it sounds like what Mike's talking about more is like what he what happens like to him is like if he's talking negative to himself or like wakes up like oh shit, okay, I got this is I think just the ability to segue is you almost giving yourself like a level of trust, you know what I mean.

1:14:01 I think that's a major thing about it. Is like the segway does have to be positive, but the fact that you can segue is a positive like inherently, so like if you're talking negative or you know, you're like, oh man, I gotta do this. Man, I don't feel like this. I did this, this this you just even if you just stop, you go, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna think like that, Like I'm not gonna like even just stopping and you're like, oh, I'm not doing that. Like that in itself is your brain like telling yourself like oh shit, like this dude's trying, Like you know what I mean, Like you're telling yourself you're trying, and like your body, your own mind tells it talk to itself like okay, like he actually cares like, yeah, you know what I mean. I think, I think my like this. We're talking about it in terms of like genetics. This is very interesting because I wouldn't expect your glass half full or glass half empty like to be a genetics thing. But if I think about it, I I believe that mine is a lot of learned behavior. Growing up, I was surrounded by so much negativity and criticism all the time every day comparison like yelling, yelling, like beating, like it's so it's so bad that I think sometimes I can feel like I'm I'm I don't think about it, and naturally that's kind of what happens. And then I'll catch myself and I'm like, I'm just like when I was like the people who raise me, and I hate it.

1:15:16 So I try to like that's all changed, to recognize it. Yeah, I do wonder what the genetic or the nurture part is to how you react to that, because some people are negative and that fuels them. Right, So when coaching and athletics you talk about that, like yelling at a certain kid, that kid is going to go perform his best yelling at a different kid, He's going to squeal away and do nothing. And I think that matters inside yourself too, Like you miss a deadlift, does that fire you up? Obviously everyone gets sad about her angry about it, and maybe you could say, like, fuck, I'm the worst deadlift forever. But does that mean you're going to go to the next deadlift session and go harder or does that mean you're you're going to pussy out not do your drop sets. That reminds me of Geo and Bart, because Geo is saying, like, you know, Bart is very hyping up, yell at me kind of thing.

1:16:00 Yea, yeah, and then she's like, I don't like when he does that. I don't I'm not that like that doesn't hype me up. Yeah, like you need to talk to me and motivate me, but don't yell at me, don't scream at me anything. Yeah. I think knowing that obviously from a coach's standpoint, but also knowing that how you react to that every day and like Kyle said, yeah, we're recognizing it or and even you don't even have to recognize it and sit there and say, hey man, you're being negative, like fix it. Some of it's building that routine in where like every day I take a shower and cal friy hears me, poor dude, I blast hell a happy music, and that's how I start my routine. Like that's part of my routine to be in a more positive mode. I lay out my clothes the night before to look good and feel good about how I look, and then I blast happy music because music is something that feels me a lot. And that's how I try to start every day. I'm gonna eat donuts every day because donuts make me swear to God. Though, Like Kyle gets coffee every day, I'm sure that's part of something in his head that that that's just part of the routine. Like and I obviously drink coffee every day too, But you know whatever, it is, like little stuff like that goes a long way, I think.

1:16:51 I mean, there's a lot of subconscious that we don't. Yeah, happy music. I'm sure he thinks like directly, like oh this is like directly will make me happy talk about happy stuff. But like just the idea of even like turning your phone on to go to Spotify to click that like all that plays around. Yeah, it's like it's subconsciously so many things are happenings you yeah. Yeah, Yeah, So there's probably things that like I'm doing daily that make me feel better that I don't even know. And there's probably things you do every day that make you feel yeah that play into that thing. Watching old lifting videos of me when I was strong, don't do that. Yeah, it's possible. I think what Mike's describing is pretty much like the purest form of self care. It's not that not the bullshit version of self care, but that bringing the needle to neutrality is really like that's important.

1:17:39 Yeah, there's a positive people bring them down to bro Honestly, some people might need to. Honestly, some who like are always shooting for the stars but not reaching but not doing anything about it. Those people need to go to more realistic steps to get somewhere. Yeah, it does work the other way if it's too extreme. I don't think people realize the coming to neutral part of how like actually important that is because some people don't realize that's a thing. Yeah, They're like, oh, you're being negative, you're being positive, and it's like that's the biggest thing in like anxiety attacks. I learneder like having an anxious brain or depressed brain, it's just fine and neutral yeah, just be like, oh yeah, we've been here before, Like all right, right, just go like it's not like, no, man, you could do this, Like if it works for people, it works for people, you know. Yeah, yeah, it's less likely the people. I feel the worst for the people who are depressed and low and whatever and there's no trigger and they're just it's just part of it. It's literally like a mental illness thing and not. I mean that's what depression is.

1:18:34 Not a situational I've never been anything but situationally depressed. I'm depressed by what's going on round. I've been there, chemical, situational, all of it. Both, yeah, both, yeah, I mean that's that's what the real disorders are. Like, I've been diagnosed with. Anxiety is the same thing. Every every human feels anxious when you have an event coming up, you have a big speech coming up, you're about to go win the big game, you have a big photo shoot coming up. Everyone feels the ink, just feelings different things. Yeah, or it's or it's it's it's cute, it's because of something. It's situational, yeah, versus I'm just anxious. You say, Mike, why are you off the day? I'm like, I don't know. It's not because of my dog's going to surgery. It's not because of a big report I have to put in. It's just I feel anxious about everything. That's what you tell yourself to I mean, to go back to neutral. You. It's like, Mike, what are you anxious about? And he's just like, I don't know. He's telling himself that too, you know what I mean. He's all like, oh man, what did I drink? This though just ticks depression. You have ended up on the couch for four months because of nothing. Yeah, He's like, I don't know what's what it is, but I gotta go squat today. So you just, yeah, I can't keep moving one foot forward, you know kind of thing. Try what if it's like anxiety about little things? Yeah, I'll often like like Jim talking about like the disorder stuff or stuff you can chemically like find. There's obviously like phobia type stuff, right, Like people are scared of flying and that can turn into like anxiety, But that stuff you can get like more direct treatments for right right right, like exposure therapy. Exposure therapy is a big one with with social

1:20:05 anxiety flying, whatever it might be animals of certain natures or whatever it might be, yeah, or water, you know whatever, phobias and anxious if you have Yeah, exposure therapy does work. But I was diagnosed with sometimes what you wish it was like that sometimes Yeah, no, I my personal experience, I very much do because then you could pen point it. But I was diagnosed with like general anxiety disorder, which just means I need to be diagnosed with something. I will say that. Almost five o'clock this morning, I woke up from a dream that was not a bad dream, but I just had a many anxiety attack, like like I need to I need to calm myself down, Like I usually sleep with the ear plugs, and like I took them out because I felt like I was going deaf and ripped his shirt off and hopped on the toilet pretty much yeah, no, and like I sleep, but I am asked I had to take it off because I need to know the lights still out there. Yeah, yeah, you know blind or deaf You're like, I'm still yeah, I'm not and dying dying. Yeah. It took me and over an hour to findral neutrality again and grounding, and I went back to sleep finally but like I was just too anxious to go to and I don't even know why for no particularly, no particular reason. Yeah, there was no There was no rhyme or reason to it at all. And it doesn't happen very often, but it does happen. Yeah, we'll thrill attacks. I have a bunch of anxiety grounding techniques I teach you. So I misread because the ads keep popping up on this site is called the healthy dot com, which is defenerentally owned by readers Digest. And there are actually not there's not one more. There are six

1:21:36 more, and I don't think we have six more. Yeah, we can do one more and then we can maybe save five for Thursday's episode. Whoever wants to be on there. Okay, so uh this one, let's do who's here with the confidence talk? Yeah, because we we did did over that, like how you build confidence or how do you build confidence? Yes? It was, yeah, And I mean the good thing with all that is like there's some settled science on that kind of stuff for sure, A little bit not like everything obviously, but like there's something like something's gonna someone just said it was either color. I just said, like you have to trust yourself for that, and that's one hundred percent it is right. It's the same ideas like we talked about in that episode. Is like proving to yourself that you'll do what you say you're gonna do, right, and then if you trust yourself, you're much likely to be able to be more confident to trust others and just like trusting someone else, right, it's it's a repeated process and a repeated habit that I see that SeaBASS is going to show up on time and he's going to do what he says he did, So then I build trust with Sea Bass. Well, of course you're going to build trust the same way with yourself. There's just a million more of those opportunities to build that trust. Where Sea Bass you know it's work related or whatever we're doing together, that he's built that trust with me that I know he's gonna get shit done and show up. But with yourself, it's every second of every day what you say you're gonna do, and then whether you do it or not, well, that's a good, good lead into this last one that we're going to cover right here. And that's how trusting you are. Do you believe your friend's excuse for bailing on on plans and genetic

1:23:09 Yeah, genetics might be partially responsible for your answer to that question. In a study of twins published in p and As Again, researchers from at the University of Arizona found that trust is thirty percent inheritable. That's crazy. I wonder if it's tied into the negative thought. Well, here's the thing. If you're more suspicious, that probably has more to do with experiences than genetics. Distrust, according to the study, is not an inherited trait and appears to be primarily socialized. You know what I mean, Because if you're tend to be pessimist, you would think you'd be less likely yea best trusting? Yeah, yeah, I would. You're going to see the worst outcome before an outcome. Yeah. They don't say that, but that's that's one of those things to reason things. Yeah, for sure. I I think that my you know, toxic trade is wanting to trust people. Yeah. I'm a little naive sometimes too. I want to trust the sermon. Yeah.

1:24:04 We all have a little bit of that. Yeah we try. Yeah, yeah, I do try to give too much trust often. That's where my heart's broken. This industry is rough for that. I mean it's hard too, the blindside you yeah, you know. Yeah, I trust everything but a woman. True, and this is why you're single. Yeah, true, true. Give that's why I want a dog. That's why I want a puppy. Why mightn't have either? I know, But at least I trust those little ships. They got my back. Don't trust a cat, though, no, I know, because they'll eat you. You'll eat you within twenty four hours. Yeah, a cat will eat you within twenty four hours. A dog will only eat you when it's fucking starving, like a week. Then it might nibble on you. It might be your genitals.

1:24:48 But anyway, they call that rocky Mountain oysters and abyssle. Okay, there we go again. What we're talking about? Trust you trust me it? Yeah? Thanks? It's also just well building the trust. Yeah, I think are we talking about like trust that is like things that aren't built when we first meet kind of thing? Yeah? Yeah, yeah right, because yeah, you like it is kind of black and white a in the beginning, right, You meet someone and some of them might have to do with uh. They always say because the human can only which is the fucked up reason of social media is like the humans made to only know like fifty to one hundred people. Yeah, I think I think one hundred and fifty is the cap. Yeah yeah, so it's like it's like one hundred and hundred fifty and then you know, you can draw this back evolutionary and that's what they say a lot of tribes or a lot of communities were, which makes sense. That's like how many names you can know, or like maybe it's one hundred and fifty names and like fifty people like you know, you know, like them. And then they say every person you meet, you automatically tie them to someone you previously have known, which I find myself doing in my head, like oh dude, kind of reminds me of whatever. So if I meet someone that's kind of like Kyle, I'm like, oh yeah, I trust this guy, yeah right, which is probably dangerous too, like this motherfucker's nothing like this motherfucker? What do we knows? And maybe they are you know, maybe there are likeliness in there, yeah, energy familiarity. Yeah yeah, not to get too hippy, but there are energetic fields and vibrations with humans, so maybe there is something real there. But maybe it's also AHw, he's just tall six five and kind of jokes like Kyle, and so maybe it is a piece shit. I have a case of trusting people more. This is like more about what they tell me in

1:26:23 terms of stories or things that they've done or accomplished or like their experiences. I think I trust what they say, and then later on down the line, I hear other people talking about this person and like, oh, yeah, that's bullshit, like that's just not true. And I was like, oh, I never doubted it for a second, but like, how do you know you really didn't go to the moon? Okay, and nothing crazy like that, But like they say, they have these cool experiences or unique experiences, and I'm like, okay, cool, that's awesome whatever. But for me, I'm just like I would rather believe you're somewhat maybe outlandish story ish then to believe that you're telling me in line yeah, yeah, because you lost that full genetically. Then yeah, you have to make a judgment call right away right now. Either this guy's a fucking liar or that story is true. There's no other option. It's like, or you're just like that's what I try to do. I try to do. Sure if you did great. That doesn't affect me either way. I think the biggest problem with it or not problem, but like, uh, trust is so fragile, you know what I mean, because once it's broken, like it's so easy to break it and happen to split second and it could take years to make you know what I mean, and it could be broken. But then not only that, even if it's not even built up at all, and then someone does something where you're like, that wasn't even true. You just said that, Like now you just can't trust that person in general, just like I just you and I don't even trust you now, Like where are we going to? God? Yeah, it depends on what it was.

1:27:46 It is. Yeah, it's humans are just so layered that we have to organize it. So I organize it like that, Like if you're gonna lie to me about how much you spend on those shoes, you're gonna lie to me about everything where we're we're not. Humans aren't always like that some people, righte Like I'm probably more likely to lie about something dumb and small because I'm exaggerating or I'm just spitting what comes off the top of my head, like a price of a shoe rather than lie about something real. But you just never fucking know. Some guy might be like I need impress mic Oh, these are three hundred dollars. That's the big thing about the social because social humans are telling a cool story. I don't like. Yeah, av I've deadlifted eight hundred for five. You know, like humans want to be accepted, so you will say a lot of things will be accepted, and some of it is harmless, but some of it can lead to less harmless.

1:28:32 What I don't like about that, it's like I don't really know who you are. Then if you're like pretending because you want to be like you want to come off as a certain way or be perceived in a certain way. It's like you're not even comfortable enough to like be honest and genuine with me. Then sure that kind of sucks, and that that makes me feel almost upset, Like you don't feel confident, confident or comfortable enough you have to put on a It's like you don't trust me to keep it real? Yeah what do you? And now I'm you're trying to impress me? Why? Like I want you to see me for a person, like just yeah, yeah, just like relax just like, just be yourself and we can all enjoy like our company or whatever. But that's what I don't like. And I think I am very honest and genuine, almost like to honor sometimes.

1:29:13 So it's hard for me to see other people lying about things. Yeah yeah, but once they do, I'm like, you're not my kind of person hanging out with a little bit. Yeah. And another one that gets me too is people who say things are going to be a particular way. Basically they promise you things, and then I think that some of those people believe that they are telling you the truth, but they have a kernel in their mind of doubt that it's actually going to come to pass. Sure, but they've stomped that down and if it doesn't happen, they assign blame for that to some outside situation. Yeah, yeah, you're talking about I don't know about you, guys. I have a specific person in my head, a person in my head. Mike does too. Yeah, I don't know, because I think external factors do come in. And I think that's so just like too niched out, because I think I could be that way where it's because because if I'm affirming to myself and I'm trying to be more positive, then I'm going to convey that message in a leadership role to my team.

1:30:17 But whether that comes true or not, Like I'm not a magician, but you're not making empty promises. I'm not, but I am trying to make like positive ours. Yeah, positive, positive promotion and like positive goals or positive like you know, otherwise then we're like if I come in negative, they we're all gonna be negative. They're all going to do You're motivational and supportive and like you have broad goals for us to aim towards and gives us a sense of direction. Sure, there is always external factors in life, you know. And yeah, obviously that's just like a nuanced situation because I try to be like that too though, because because I am like that with myself, so then why wouldn't I try to be that with I'm more talking about the situation where somebody is trying to make you happy in the moment or motivate you in the moment, and they know what a really good chance that that it's bullshit or they call it like uh, you know, like gas lighting or casting ye bread I think breadcombing. When Jim was talking about it, I'm thinking more of like direct promises, right, it's a manipulation tactic to promise you the world to get you to buy in. Yeah, it's cold ship or it's like very tangible, like they're saying very specific things that they're promising. Yours is like we want to get to this school, we want to get to a point where we can do this. Let's try and find ways to do that. Yeah, cold stuff like that really interests me. On how humans are easily like falling into colts or like how that leader does it. It's type. Yeah, that stuff interests me a lot because a lot of that comes in a role because it's like takes. It takes like the receiver and the giver, you know, like it's it is like this synergistic you should study it and then try to apply it. I studied. I studied a little bit of it just through therapy in myself and dealing with narcissists or whatever, because I am like kind of that little lamb

1:31:50 lost it. You're a narcissist. No, I'm one that may may be attracted to the world following because all the narcissists or charismatic that's yeah, yeah, it doesn't work or I'm like trying to find hope, you know, and those people project hope. I just smell bullshit because I'm a pessimist. I'm like, yeah, that's because I took a fat ship. Your hope is fake, took all his clothes off. That shit smells bullshit. On that note, let's wrap this one up. Where can they find the ivy Shout him out on Instagram at Avy dot Lou Subas Instagram at Sebastian Underscore Brand, Bilow Big Guy Instagram, Kyle dot Cast Show with two O's Ladies and Gentlemen three sb dot COO for All your Apparel Needs. New episodes Wednesday and Friday. I'm sol I'm like where you want to find me? I met the Jimmy d and all the social media. The show is fifty percent Facts, where percent is a word and fifty is just number of fifty percent.

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